This post was brought to you by a close friend, Katie Trenney. There are moments in life where the “bright side” is more difficult to find. This post reflects about on that kind of moment. In an instant, your world can be shaken to the point of complete and total disorientation. You don’t know which way is up, your faith is shaken. Believing in the good and finding what you can hold onto during those dark times is what keeps us going. We hope that Kevin and his friends are able to find the strength to make it through this extremely difficult times. Our thoughts and prayers go out to each of you.
Two nights ago, I attended the Taylor Swift concert in Pittsburgh with a couple friends. After tailgating for a few hours and then listening to Taylor sing about her feelings, we piled back into the car to make the drive home. About 20 minutes into our trip, tragedy struck. My friend Kevin, who was sitting in the back seat with me, began to have a seizure. At first we thought he was kidding, but quickly realized that it was real.
Sarah, our driver, pulled over immediately. The girl sitting in the passenger seat, Rebecca, jumped out of the car and called 911 while Sarah and I quickly tried to get Kevin lay down onto his side. As Kevin laid on the backseat of the car becoming sick, Rebecca struggled to give the 911 operator our location, and Sarah and I yelled at Kevin trying to get him to respond. When the police arrived, they tried asking Kevin simple questions.
“What’s your name?”
“What year is it?”
“Where are you?”
Growing more and more frustrated, Kevin tried to answer the questions but he was unable to respond. The ambulance arrived shortly after and decided that he needed to be transported to a hospital. They took him up the road to St. Margaret’s for preliminary testing, and Sarah, Rebecca, and I continued our drive home – drained and shaken from the events of that night. At about 4 a.m. I got a text from Kevin’s mother telling me that there were abnormalities on his brain and he was being sent to UPMC for more intense testing. Later, I got the news of the bleeding in Kevin’s brain. While his motor skills remained strong, his speech and memory had been affected.
Yesterday, Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook were flooded with posts about Kevin. Positive thoughts and prayers were sent to him throughout the day from his loving family and friends. Kevin is still in the ICU at UPMC and is being monitored by doctors. They’re not sure if his speech and memory will come back 100%, but have confidence that he will improve during speech therapy.
The words of Joshua 1:9 comfort me. This verse has become life verse. Over the past 36(ish) hours, I have said it to myself over and over again. It’s a constant reminder that God is in control. Kevin is in good hands and will (hopefully) come out of this stronger and better than ever.
If you have a minute to spare today, say a prayer for my friend Kevin. Ask God to help him be strong.